Friday, 25 October 2013

Fashionista - Fashion Sister

In this weekly feature  I'll be sorting the Fashionista from the Fashion Sister.  Selected from Vogue's 'Best Dressed of the Week' we are talking 'A list' style royalty selected by THE top style magazine.

So where do I come in?  Well, even style high achievers can 'fall off the wagon'. Some people seem to make the grade looking anything but elegant or considered.

Included for who they are - despite style faux pas.  These are the fashion sisters.

Fashionista: Staffordshire model Erin O'Connor showing how to wear a black DJ. Pure class.
Fashion Sister: Dakota Fanning choosing a Vionnet S/S 2014 gown that washes out her lovely colouring. Dakota you usually do so much better & it's time to get your roots done.



Wednesday, 23 October 2013

It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like.......

Christmas! - There I've said it and we haven't even got past Halloween.

In fairness Christmas has been in our uppermost thoughts at work since July and the office party is scheduled for November! So perhaps it is inevitable that my thoughts are turning to family festivities too. My niece is coming over from Canada this year, which is very exciting, and the complicated logistics of getting everyone together in the same place at the same time is already being discussed.

Don't get me wrong I love Christmas and my usual pared back style gives way to an ethos of 'more, more, more'  as I start dreaming up schemes worthy of being the backdrop to our  traditional family celebrations.  And although never a day goes by when I don't do or say something that reminds me of my mother, it is Christmas when I realise that the things I do as part of our family Christmas are influenced so much by her and how magical she made all my childhood Christmas'.

One of the things I love most about Christmas is preparing the house for visiting family and friends. Setting the scene and creating an atmosphere that conjures up that feeling of expectancy, that tingle of excitement that only Christmas brings.

As usual there is a wealth of decorations to choose from with high streets and retail parks awash with every colour combination imaginable. If in doubt check out www.coxandcox.co.uk for lovely fairy lights, silvered tea light holders and glass candlesticks   Homespun is still a popular theme so get knitting, felting, or baking. One year I made gingerbread angels to hang on the tree, together with brightly coloured candy canes. By the end of the holiday the gingerbread went soft and one by one each angel fell from the tree only to be devoured by an expectant dog grateful that patience had finally paid off.
If all else fails gold trinkets and a vase of white lillies will add impact
I found a tub of plastic safari animals in a pound shop and sorted out the Elks & painted them white. From a distance or after a couple of Rum Punches they look like Reindeer amongst the snowy marshmallows
Anyone for Turkey, the table set for Christmas dinner
A big part of Christmas is obviously party season. Last year I was adamant that I was going to wear a dress I had worn previously, after all who needed a new dress?  Well it turned out that I did, and the resultant panic buy is still hanging in my wardrobe in shame. So this year far from it being an extravagance to buy a new outfit I think it's all part of the Christmas preparation and anticipation of the party season.  Yes, I've got a number of dresses that I could wear and yes it's unlikely that anyone will remember what I wore last year,  but that's not really the point!

Having been to the Style Birmingham Live event recently www.shoppinginbirmingham.com which was a wonderful showcase not only for the gorgeous style on offer but also for Birmingham itself,  I have designs on several dresses for the party season.  www.riverisland.co.uk came out very strongly at the Bullring 10 show www.bullring.co.uk with some really key pieces, notably some wine coloured shorts and a lush beaded top that  would look stunning if, and I use this as a loose rule of thumb, your birth certificate was registered in the 90's. (That counts me out then!)

Really lovely detail on this beaded top. 
For me the www.monsoon.co.uk beaded white flapper dress was gorgeous. It moved really well, which is not always obvious without seeing it on the catwalk but trust me on this, this frock will Conga and Macarena with the best of em!
Too sophisticated for the Macarena? Who knows after a couple of G&T's
Hark, do I hear the tinkling bells of the Coca Cola Christmas ad?

Yes, it may be October - but in my 'minds eye,'  in the words of Noddy Holder, "IT'S CHRISTMAS!"

Friday, 18 October 2013

Fashionista - Fashion Sister


In this weekly feature  I'll be sorting the Fashionista from the Fashion Sister.  Selected from Vogue's 'Best Dressed of the Week' we are talking 'A list' style royalty selected by THE top style magazine.

So where do I come in?  Well, even style high achievers can 'fall off the wagon'. Some people seem to make the grade looking anything but elegant or considered.

Included for who they are - despite style faux pas.  These are the fashion sisters.

Fashionista:Karlie Kloss in Michael Kors AW 2013


Fashion Sister: Pixie Geldof resplendent in a Gucci vinyl skirt and with an Ashley Williams SS 2014 Shark Bag - Form an orderly queue here!

Friday, 11 October 2013

Fashionista - Fashion Sister

Friday 11th October 2013

In this weekly feature  I'll be sorting the Fashionista from the Fashion Sister.  Selected from Vogue's 'Best Dressed of the Week' we are talking 'A list' style royalty selected by THE top style magazine.

So where do I come in?  Well, even style high achievers can 'fall off the wagon'. Some people seem to make the grade looking anything but elegant or considered.

Included for who they are - despite style faux pas.  These are the fashion sisters.

Fashionista: Julianne Moore looking every inch a high achiever in a Givenchy by Riccardo Tisci gown

Fashion Sister: Usually the epitome of style Livia Firth falls fowl of wide stripes and pantomime shoes


Wednesday, 25 September 2013

Brand Stand

Where do you stand on brand?

The chances are that even if you don't consider yourself a Prada Princess, you are a Dyson Diva or a Kellogg's Queen. In fact many of us feel more at home with a trusted brand or label whether it's Louis Vuitton for all our luggage requirements or Heinz for all our baked bean ones. And this is what makes brand so valuable and brand image so important.

Burberry that quintessentially English brand became a victim of its own success when its ubiquitous check design was taken up by youths and yobs. Whether they wore real or fake it was hugely damaging and whilst sales soared the brand was damaged and has taken time and hard work to recover.

Designers of high end labels help the economy, last week London Fashion week bought huge revenue into the city and they push boundaries which is always a good thing.

Whilst most of us can't afford the hefty price tag of an Elie Saab evening gown or a Stella McCartney suit we can buy into their label by purchasing their fragrance ranges and in doing so buying a little bit of 'je ne se qua'. Even now I love entering a department store and taking in that intoxicating smell of perfume en-mass. Leaving a perfume counter, full of images of women I could never be, with a little bag with cord handles (the cord handles are very important) I'm sure I walk out a little taller, a little thinner, a little bit someone else.

A highly contested market, the likes of Chanel & Dior were amongst the first Haute Couture houses to
establish themselves as a Brand. But would their products be quite so desirable if instead of  Keira Knightly and Natalie Portman their products were endorsed by say Vanessa Feltz or Kerry Katona. And why are the expensive and subliminal TV and glossy magazine ad's so surreal, telling you nothing about the product? - It's because to coin a phase, 'they had us at hello'. Whilst we spray and sniff at the perfume counter, generally we've already made up our minds  based purely on the product image.

My worry with labels and the 'it's designer' school of thought is that sometimes personal style suffers as a result and we hide behind the brand. Somehow wearing top to
toe anything or buying into a designer or store exclusively seems a bit of a 'cop out'.  The most stylish women are those who know their style and mix designer with high street. High street with charity shop finds etc for a more personal look. Some people use the label as justification. I must look good because it's Prada, Top Shop, or whatever your label of choice is.

As a mother of teenagers (I was a child bride) I am concerned at how much emphasis is put on a label. It's a real shame that kids these days use a hoody or T shirt, emblazoned with what is basically their own personal product endorsement, as a confidence enhancement.  I always say to my kids the only time you should wear a 3 inch logo across your chest is if you are being paid to.

But then the mist of time rolls back and whilst there wasn't the label pressure of today I remember spraying myself profusely with Cote's Just Musk perfume, or Just Muck as my parents called it. Apparently musk is derived from the anal gland of deer, it's something to do with them attracting a mate. I used to douse myself in it to the extent that it is a wonder I wasn't dry humped everyday by Donna and Blitzen!

I remember my friend cutting the Fred Perry emblem off her dads old tennis shirt and sewing it onto her plain white polo.  My brother first drenched himself in Brut and then quickly climbed the greasy pole of  fragrance acceptability with Aramis (which is enjoying a resurgence  with a whole new generation of consumer). Indeed it was a wonder that there wasn't some kind of chemical explosion in our house.

However, although I can still look back at those days and can empathise with my children, I still feel it is my parental duty to utter those words 'how much' an a way that conveys both astonishment  and indignation in equal measure. It's by way of family tradition. I would, if my understanding was sufficient,  convert the cost of say a pair of Vans back into 'old money' despite the irrelevance, just to underpin that tradition.

It's true to say that I don't move in those circles where the latest 'It' bag comes into play, and lets face it the waiting list for a Hermes Birkin or Kelly is as important to the brand as who is seen with one on their arm. But I do rub shoulders with women who are not wearing their black dress they are wearing their Karen Millen etc. So perhaps in that vain we haven't really changed that much from the insecure teenagers we once were.

Now, given I know why and how this whole label culture thing works am I immune? Far from it. If I had the  chance I would strut around with my Louis Vuitton bag & Louboutin heels. After all as my daughter always says 'but mom it's designer.'

My Stand on Brand - buy in all you want. Just don't sell yourself short!


Friday, 13 September 2013

Swag Bag

Is it just me but I seem to have lost my 'swag' in the last few weeks. Sometimes, indeed most times, I'm a fairly confident, let em have it with both barrels kinda girl. But then it's as if some mist descends and I feel a little low, a little out of sorts. Not that I'm poorly it's just a Mojo loosing phenomenon.

Now, I blame everything on my hormones or as the years go by perhaps the lack of them, but although I do generally like to worship at the Alter of blame I'm not sure in this instance I can lay my lack of  swag at this particular door. However I take solace in the fact that it seems that it isn't just me. Friends, colleagues and celebrities seem to go through similar phases and this has got me thinking - where is my swag and how do I get it back?

We all do that thing when you're feeling like crap for no apparent reason.  We layer on the 'isn't life wonderful' persona with a trowel. Only to look like some kind of uber charged neurotic, smiling too widely and laughing in a way that could shatter glass and indeed your entire face. No, I can  'over season it' with the best of them, I want my proper swag back. Hormones, weather, post holiday blues W H A T  E V E R!

Now it may seem a little sadist at this point but take a look at these women photographed on the streets of New York yesterday around the various venues for NYFW. All are gorgeous, none of them seem to have any need to a reach for their 'swag deficiency tablets' and yet one of these fabulousee is having a swag induced uber neurotic moment and just 'over reaching it'. She seems super confident and yet it's all 'working too hard'.


Confidence is an elusive thing, whether we're talking style, business, sport etc. When its flying high it regenerates itself effortlessly. But when it is lacking it retreats into the realms of 'rocking horse poo'.

We are all attracted to confident people and whilst appearance has a lot to do with confidence,  it is confidence that makes people attractive rather than attractive people necessarily being confident.  We all know that the merest application of our favourite lipstick can get us through the toughest of days. (I wonder what the male equivalent of that is?) But what is it in our psyche that makes the difference?

Well, not having studied psychology, and excepting clinical depression, hormones and bad karma  I have decided that my psyche needs a good kick up the arse.  I'm done wasting my time worrying about my chipped pedicure (even tough I'm wearing knee high boots) and other insecurities too many and petty to list. I'm going out tonight with old friends to have a few drinks & a lot of laughs. There's no better cure for lack of swag than laughing at yourself and each other until your stomach hurts.

Easy? - well at least until the next time I feel more Bag than Swag!

Thursday, 29 August 2013

Me, have a style icon - that will be the Day!


Looking at the fashion trends for A/W13 I'm feeling slightly nostalgic. The trends are exuding the sophisticated style I can remember from my youth, not in my wardrobe you must understand, but from the old films I used to watch during my school holidays.

Whilst my children have their XBoxes, and One Direction fan forums to keep boredom at bay I only had three TV channels. Not that it mattered because every afternoon usually on BBC2, there was an old film to watch, rich with that old Hollywood glamour that somehow seems so elusive these days.


A/W13 brings longer line skirts both fitted and full, edge to edge swing coats and 'grown up' blouses, very reminiscent of those films. It's a grown up glamour with a flavour of Hollywood and its screen sirens and I have to say that I'm planning to make the most of it!

Of course Audrey Hepburn, that most ubiquitous of style icons is up there towards the pinnacle of my icon list, Breakfast At Tiffany's, Roman Holiday and My Fair Lady, although perhaps the credit for the later should go to Cecil Beaton who's costume and set design was simply sublime.


Let's not forget Grace Kelly pre and post Princess, who's casual elegance was a dream. That Long Island glamour, courtesy of the film High Society - unforgettable. Not many women get to have a handbag named after them, yet the synonymous Hermes 'Kelly' bag still stands the test of time, as the waiting list of A Lister's, gives testament.


How To Marry A Millionaire, whilst sadly not being a 'self help' thesis on the subject, must have had the most wonderful costume department, dressing Marilyn Monroe, Betty Grable and Lauren Bacall in some of the most fabulous outfits and you can clearly see the influences this era has had on AW/13 trends.


But for me, whether it is pure nostalgia, Doris Day is just the epitome of a style icon. Sitting there in the summer holidays I was simply enthralled by her grace, even when playing the fool, which she frequently did, and of cause her fabulous clothes. That Touch Of Mink, The Pyjama Game, Pillow Talk etc etc. Her clothes were simply stunning. It is also to her credit that in later years, she locked away all her fur coats so that they could never perpetuate the glamour that was at that time associated with fur. A classy lady!


Today's celebrities perhaps don't have the same glamour as that bygone age. Could this be due to they're not being 'owned' by the 'big studio's and therefore they have more scope to experiment with fashion and as such make
more mistakes? Their earlier counterparts were styled in house by studio designers to ensure they properly promoted the studio and this may be the difference. Certainly it worked in turns of style longevity.

Nicole Kidman, like most celebrities has had inevitable disasters on the red carpet, but has since developed her own style and is always very elegant. Likewise, Ms Victoria Beckham has become more stylish and glamorous over the years, perhaps because she is happier in her own skin and more relaxed. Now her elegant style is a million miles away from her 'World Cup' 'WAG' days. And whilst I'm not a great fan of her Cavalli 'less is more' phase  it did provide for stunning photo opportunities. Now her style is enduring and

timeless, and who wouldn't want a trolley dash round VB's dressing room. (If only her clothes had a good deal of stretch in them!)


But undoubtedly, if I could emulate just one of these style icons it would have to be Doris - If only for one Day!